Parents Home Care

My elderly parent fell. What should I do now?

Ask her not to get up yet.

Call 911 now for severe pain, heavy bleeding, a head injury, a new change in awareness, trouble breathing, weakness on one side, or an obvious deformity. Call 911 as well if she cannot get up, or if she takes a blood thinner and hit her head. If you are unsure whether moving her could cause harm, wait for trained help.

Even when she feels fine, write down the fall and tell her doctor. A fall that caused no injury still counts (National Institute on Aging).

Do this now

Check for urgent harm before helping her move. The fastest response is not always lifting her immediately.

  1. Make the area calm. Ask her to stay still. Move pets, loose objects, and other people away.
  2. Ask what hurts. Check for severe pain, bleeding, a head strike, a shortened or oddly turned leg, new weakness, trouble speaking, chest pain, or breathing trouble.
  3. Call 911 when urgent signs are present. Also call if she cannot get up, may have hit her head, takes a blood thinner and hit her head, or you are unsure how to move her.
  4. Keep her comfortable. Use a blanket if she is cold. Do not give food, drink, or medication while waiting unless the dispatcher tells you to.
  5. Do not pull her by the arms. If there is no urgent sign and she wants to try getting up, follow instructions from a clinician, emergency dispatcher, or a fall-recovery method she has already practiced with a professional.
  6. Stay with her. A second fall can happen during a rushed attempt to stand.
  7. Record the facts. Note the time, place, surface, footwear, what she was doing, any warning feeling, whether she hit her head, and how long she was down.

Call 911 for any of these

Do not drive her yourself when movement may make an injury worse.

  • Loss of consciousness, even briefly.
  • A head strike with a new headache, vomiting, confusion, unusual sleepiness, or behavior change.
  • Heavy bleeding or a wound that will not stop bleeding.
  • Severe neck, back, hip, or limb pain.
  • An obvious deformity or inability to bear weight.
  • Chest pain, breathing trouble, seizure, or new weakness on one side.
  • A sudden change in speech, vision, balance, or awareness.
  • Being unable to get up, especially after a long time on the floor.
  • Any situation where the family cannot assess or move her without risk.

If none of these is present, call her doctor or health advice line the same day for instructions. Symptoms can appear later. Ask what changes should trigger urgent care and whether medication, blood pressure, vision, or an illness needs review.

This guide cannot assess an injury. When the situation is unclear, the emergency dispatcher or a licensed clinician can help determine the next step.

Not sure where she stands overall? The five-minute assessment asks about what you've actually seen, then shows its reasoning. Free, no sign-up.

If she was on the floor a long time

Time on the floor can lead to cold, dehydration, skin pressure, and complications from an untreated injury. Do not wait for a threshold before acting.

  1. Arrange prompt medical review, even if she is now standing.
  2. Record the likely time down and how she was found.
  3. Test how she calls for help from the floor, bathroom, bedroom, stairs, and yard.
  4. Add a wearable or reachable alert if she agrees, but keep human backups.
  5. Create a key or lockbox plan for an approved nearby responder.
  6. Set a missed-check-in time that triggers a visit, not another day of calls.

A device is not the whole answer. It must be worn, charged, connected, noticed, and followed by someone who can act. The guide on replacing Alexa Together has a useful function-by-function test for any alert service.

If you found her only because she missed a call, review the plan for a parent who is not answering the phone. The important question is not whether she had a phone. It is how someone notices, enters, and reaches her.

Lowering the chance of the next fall

Ask her doctor or pharmacist to review all prescription medicines, over-the-counter products, and supplements. Ask specifically about dizziness, sleepiness, low blood pressure, or combinations that could affect balance. Do not stop a medicine on your own.

Then walk the home with her:

  • Clear cords, clutter, and loose rugs from paths.
  • Improve lighting from bed to bathroom and at entrances.
  • Add secure handrails and grab bars where an assessment recommends them.
  • Keep daily items within easy reach.
  • Repair uneven steps and add visible contrast at stair edges.
  • Use shoes that fit and have dependable traction.
  • Keep a phone or alert within reach, including from the floor.
  • Ask about strength and balance exercises suited to her health.
  • Schedule vision and hearing checks when due.

Exercise, medication review, vision care, appropriate footwear, and changes to home hazards can all reduce fall risk. The CDC provides a home fall-prevention checklist and questions for a clinician through its STEADI patient resources. Bring the event record. A precise description helps the visit focus on the real moment.

Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Use of this material does not imply endorsement by CDC, ATSDR, HHS or the United States Government.

One fall, or a pattern?

One fall means the cause and the response plan need review. A repeated fall pattern means the current support may not be enough.

A single fall without injury still matters. Look for a slippery surface, poor lighting, a loose rug, a rushed bathroom trip, new shoes, a medication change, illness, dizziness, or weakness. Tell her doctor, then fix the obvious hazard without assuming it was the only cause.

Tell her doctor about these too: near-falls, holding walls, avoiding stairs, staying in bed from fear, or being unable to get up. They show that daily life has narrowed, and they help her doctor more than saying only, "She is unsteady."

The Parents Home Care assessment treats two fall situations as especially important. A fall with injury in the last six months, or two or more falls in that period, can lead to the result that it is time to look at more support than home alone can give. The result does not state what caused the falls. You can see the exact published decision rules on how the assessment works.

Can she keep living alone after a fall?

Possibly. It depends on the injury, the cause, her ability to get help, and what the rest of daily life looks like. A fall does not automatically require a move. It can require more support at home, a temporary stay with family, rehabilitation, or a housing discussion.

Ask four questions:

  1. Can she stand, transfer, and use the bathroom as she did before?
  2. Can she call for help from the floor?
  3. Can someone reach her quickly at any hour?
  4. Are medication, meals, stairs, and household tasks still working?

If she is coming home after treatment, use the hospital discharge guide before the ride arrives. It covers access, medications, follow-up, and who will be present during the first days.

Questions families ask

Should I move my elderly parent after a fall?

Do not move her if she has severe pain, an obvious deformity, a possible head, neck, back, or hip injury, or a sudden change in awareness. Call 911 and follow the dispatcher's instructions. Even without those signs, do not pull her up. Stay close and get professional guidance if you are unsure.

What if my elderly parent fell but says she is fine?

Record the fall and tell her doctor, even if she reports no injury. Ask about symptoms that may appear later and what should trigger urgent care. Review medicines, vision, footwear, strength, balance, and the exact place she fell. Respect her report while still following through on the event.

How long is too long on the floor after a fall?

Do not wait for a research threshold. A long lie is an extended period on the floor after a person falls and cannot get up or summon help. One prospective study of people over 90 tracked an hour or more as its long-time category, and that delay was associated with serious injuries, hospital admission, and later moves into long-term care. Any unexpected time on the floor matters, because it can worsen cold, dehydration, skin pressure, and an untreated injury. Tell the clinician how long she may have been down, then shorten the time it takes to notice and respond.

Why does my elderly parent keep falling?

Falls can have more than one contributor, including medicines, vision, muscle weakness, balance, blood pressure, illness, footwear, and home hazards. A guide cannot identify the cause. Repeated falls need a prompt clinician review and a wider look at support, response time, and the home environment.

How common is this?

Falls are the leading cause of injury for adults age 65 and older, and more than one in four older adults report falling each year. Fewer than half of them tell their doctor (CDC). Telling the doctor is the step most families skip.

Does one fall mean my parent should stop living alone?

Not by itself. One fall calls for follow-up and changes. A fall with injury, repeated falls, a long lie, or no reliable response path raises the concern. Review the whole picture with her doctor and use a structured assessment to see whether the gap is small or broad.

Is this a one-off or a pattern?

Tonight was one event. If you're wondering about the pattern, the assessment is the place to think it through. It can say living alone looks workable right now, and it will show you why.

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Published by Parents Home Care. Clinically reviewed by Sarah Fleischman, CCC-SLP on September 3, 2026. Updated September 3, 2026. Sources: 4 linked below.

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